From Snake Encounters to Leadership Clarity
For the past seven weeks, I was working remotely from Australia. To stay in sync with my North American clients, I started my days at 4:00 a.m.—an experience that’s given me a deep respect for shift workers and a renewed appreciation for very strong coffee. But the real wake-up call came in my makeshift office beside the garage. One morning, after a heavy storm, I opened the door and saw what looked like a pile of oversized earthworms wriggling across the floor. Then I noticed the tiny scales. Not worms—baby snakes. Eighteen of them. Yes, I counted. And yes, I personally escorted each one out.
As unsettling as it was in the moment, it made me laugh later—and it reminded me of an important leadership truth: surprises will always find their way in. Sometimes they slither in quietly, sometimes they storm the room. Either way, leadership rarely unfolds in a perfectly straight line. The real question isn’t whether you can avoid the unexpected, but how quickly you can pause, reset, and refocus when it arrives.
Over the past few weeks, many of my conversations with leaders have centered on change—new structures, shifting mandates, and the added pressure of tariffs and an uncertain economy. Amid so much disruption, the risk isn’t just operational; it’s personal. Leaders often find themselves drifting away from the ‘why’ that drew them to their role and the leader they aspired to be.
If you’ve been feeling a little “off your game,” here are five ways to pause, reflect, and reconnect with clarity.
1. ASSESS YOUR CURRENT
LEADERSHIP LANDSCAPE
Leaders often jump straight into fixing problems without pausing to understand the bigger picture. Before making changes, start with a temperature check.
What parts of your role feel energizing and aligned?
Where are you feeling drained or stuck?
What signals are you getting from your team, your peers, or your board that you might need to pay attention to?
Insight: Think of this as your “leadership dashboard.” Just like a car, you need to know what’s running smoothly and what lights are flashing before you can chart the right course.
2. REVISIT YOUR INTENTIONS FOR YOUR ROLE
It’s easy to get caught up in quarterly targets and the day-to-day, but clarity often comes from going back to your original intentions.
Why did you take this role in the first place?
What did success look like in your first year?
How has that evolved—and does it still align with the leader you want to be remembered as?
Insight: Leadership drift happens quietly. By realigning to your original intentions (or deliberately redefining them), you shift from being reactive to being intentional again.
3. IDENTIFY YOUR STRENGTHS AND GAPS
Self-awareness is not a soft skill—it’s a strategic asset.
Where are you adding the most value and impact?
Where do you find yourself reacting rather than leading with purpose?
What skill, mindset, or behavior would raise your leadership game right now?
Insight: Don’t confuse being busy with being effective. The highest-performing leaders know exactly where they excel, and they actively close the gaps that hold them back.
4. CLARIFY YOUR STRATEGIC FOCUS
When everything feels urgent, nothing is truly strategic.
Where should more of your time and attention be going? What can you delegate, defer, or eliminate altogether? What critical conversations or decisions are overdue?
Insight: This is where leadership discipline shows up. Leading smarter doesn’t mean doing more—it means consistently directing your energy where it has the greatest impact.
5. DEFINE THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
Strong leaders don’t do it alone. They know when to ask for support.
What resources, coaching, or clarity would help you most right now?
What’s one action you can take this week to move back into your zone of influence?
What 30-day commitment can you make to yourself and your team?
Insight: Asking for support is not weakness. It’s what allows leaders to sustain performance through seasons of change and pressure.
WANT TO TAKE THIS FURTHER?
I’ve created a free Leadership Reconnection Worksheet to guide you (or your team) through these prompts in a more structured way. It’s perfect for an afternoon reset, a personal offsite, or as a tool in your next leadership meeting.
LEADER’S CHALLENGE
Set aside 30 minutes this week for a personal reset. Grab the worksheet, find a quiet space, and walk through the prompts. When you’re done, share one clear intention with your team—something they can see you commit to over the next 30 days. Small resets often spark the biggest momentum.
