From a Week in London to Weekly 1:1s: Strengthening Teams Through Connection
Why Weekly 1:1 Meetings Are Important
When conducted effectively, 1:1 meetings are a valuable tool for both the supervisor and the team member. They provide the staff member with a dedicated space to clarify goals, voice concerns, and receive guidance. For the supervisor, these meetings help reduce interruptions and ensure the employee has a clear plan for the week ahead. By committing to regular 1:1s, you empower your team member to succeed and demonstrate your dedication to fostering an aligned and efficient team.
Scheduling a 1:1 every week creates an uninterrupted time to connect both professionally and personally. During this time, the focus should be on the employee—they should speak at least 80% of the time, while you listen, guide, and support. This meeting is primarily for them, offering an opportunity to raise any concerns that might impact their performance or well- being, ensuring they feel heard and empowered.
Setting the Tone for Productive Conversations
Starting your 1:1s with a quick check-in is essential. This moment allows you to assess your team member’s mental and emotional state before diving into work-related discussions. By understanding where they are, you can tailor the conversation to offer the right support. As we know, an individual’s mindset directly impacts their performance, so if they’re struggling, addressing personal stress or challenges identifying this early in the meeting can make all the difference in how productive the meeting will be.
Start with a Check-In:
Take a moment to ask how they’re doing both professionally and personally. This helps you gauge their emotional state and mental readiness for the conversation ahead.
I recommend asking open-ended questions or, if you’re unsure where to start, using either the 1-5 scale or the Red-Yellow-Green scale as a simple tool to check in at the start of your meetings. These scales will give you insight into how your team member is feeling, setting the stage for a more effective and supportive discussion before diving into work-related topics.
1-5 Scale Check-In:
Professional: “On a scale of 1-5 (one being low and five being high), how are you feeling about work today?”
5 = High: Highly motivated, focused, and accomplishing objectives
4 = Good: Focused, meeting objectives, and having positive momentum
3 = Average: Getting things done, but could improve focus or effort
2 = Below Average: Some progress, but facing challenges and feeling less motivated
1 = Low: Struggling or disengaged
Personal: “On a scale of 1-5 (one being low and five being high), how are you feeling personally today?”
5 = Balanced: Content and energized
4 = Good: Stable, healthy, and feeling positive
3 = Average: Generally okay, but could be better
2 = Below Average: Some personal stress, but manageable
1 = Low: Struggling or stressed
Stress Level: “On a scale of 1-5 (one being low and five being high), how would you rate your current stress level?”
5 = Very High: Overwhelmed, with significant stress
4 = High: Feeling stressed, however, managing under pressure
3 = Average: Moderate stress, and handling everything okay
2 = Below Average: Mild stress, not overwhelming
1 = Low: Calm, and under control
Red-Yellow-Green Scale:
Alternatively, you can use the Red-Yellow-Green scale to quickly assess someone’s mental state. This simple tool helps you gauge how the other person is feeling, allowing you to adjust the tone and focus of your conversation accordingly.
To start, you can ask:
“On a scale of Red, Yellow, and Green, how are you feeling today?”
Red indicates you’re struggling, stressed, or overwhelmed.
Yellow means you’re experiencing some stress, but it’s manageable. Green means you’re feeling good, focused, and energized.
Alternatively, you can phrase it as:
“To help me better understand how you’re feeling today, can you rate your current state as Red, Yellow, or Green?”
Once they respond, this gives you a clearer understanding of their emotional state. If someone is feeling Red, you may want to explore the sources of stress or frustration more deeply and provide additional support. For someone in the Yellow range, you can still offer guidance while checking in on any concerns they may have. When they’re in the Green zone, it’s a good time to focus on progress, growth, and upcoming challenges.
This simple scale helps you adjust the direction of your conversation. If someone is feeling Red, the conversation may need to be more empathetic and supportive. If they’re in the Yellow zone, keep the conversation constructive, and for Green, focus on momentum and positive outcomes.
Ask Open Ended Questions
One of the keys to a successful 1:1 meeting is encouraging your direct report to open up about their experiences, progress, and challenges. By asking open-ended questions, you create a space for them to share their thoughts in greater depth, rather than just providing yes or no answers. This approach fosters a collaborative, two-way dialogue that promotes trust, transparency, and deeper insights into their needs and mindset.
Consider asking questions like:
“What have you been working on since we last met?” This gives them a chance to share updates on their tasks, projects, and accomplishments.
“What went well this week?/What were your wins?” Celebrating successes helps reinforce positive behaviors and boosts motivation.
“Did you have any challenges? If so, please provide details of the situation, the action you took, or potential solutions you’re considering?” This question promotes problem-solving and encourages them to think critically about how to overcome obstacles.
“Were there any actions that you committed to, but didn’t address as planned? If so, what were the reasons?” This helps you identify potential barriers or roadblocks while also creating an opportunity for constructive feedback and learning.
“What can I do to support you?” A direct invitation for them to express their needs, showing you’re invested in their success.
“Are there any roadblocks you are encountering that you need assistance with?” This provides insight into challenges that may be hindering their productivity and opens up a space for you to offer support.
“Are there any other items that you would like to discuss today?” Ending the meeting with this question gives them the opportunity to bring up any concerns or topics that may not have been covered.
By asking these types of questions, you create a supportive environment where your team member feels heard and valued. This approach not only helps you understand their progress and challenges but also enables you to offer meaningful guidance and support.
How to Ensure a Successful 1:1
1. Be Fully Present:
This meeting is dedicated to your team member, so it’s important to be fully present and engaged. Avoid distractions such as checking your phone or email. The goal is for your direct report to feel that their time with you is valuable and respected.
2. Schedule in Advance and Stick to It:
Set a consistent time for your 1:1s and make them a priority. Scheduling in advance demonstrates your commitment to this process and shows that you value the time you spend with your team member. Avoid rescheduling unless absolutely necessary.
3. Talk 20% of the Time:
The purpose of the 1:1 is to listen, provide feedback, and offer support, not to dominate the conversation. Make sure your team member does the majority of the talking. Use the time to guide the discussion, offer feedback, and share insights, but let them take the lead.
4. Ask Open-Ended Questions:
Encourage your direct report to share their thoughts, successes, and challenges by asking open-ended questions. This fosters a deeper conversation and helps you better understand their progress, goals, and any obstacles they might be facing.
5. Provide Feedback and Recognize Wins:
Use this time to acknowledge both successes and areas for improvement. Offer positive reinforcement and constructive feedback. Celebrating wins boosts morale and helps motivate your team member to keep moving forward.
6. Set Clear Next Steps:
Always end the meeting by summarizing key action items, setting clear priorities, and confirming who is responsible for what. This ensures alignment and accountability, making it easier to track progress and follow up on commitments in future meetings.
By investing in regular 1:1 meetings, you are not only strengthening your relationship with your team but also creating an environment where open communication, growth, and accountability thrive. These meetings are a critical tool for supporting your direct reports, aligning goals, and addressing challenges before they become larger issues. I encourage you to prioritize these sessions, ensuring consistency and focus.
Your commitment to making these meetings a success will not only help your team members perform at their best but also contribute to the overall success of the team and organization.
Please reach out if you have any questions or need further guidance on conducting effective 1:1s.
Jenny Reilly, MBA | Phone: 604-616-1967 | Email: jenny@jennyreilly.com